Soul Ties Part Two: Breaking the Bonds

Soul Ties Part Two: Breaking the Bonds

Last week, we discussed blood covenants and soul ties formed out of operating outside God’s perimeter of marriage. It is good to note that it is possible tie oneself up even with words. Proverbs 18:21 talks about the power in the tongue and the words. So use your words wisely. The promises people make to each other, the guarantees we give, do have power. Power to hold us accountable.

When life seems unfair and you feel defeated, it is always wise to do a spiritual checkup and align your soul with God’s purpose and plan for you. It’s prudent to seek help from those who are able to teach you about spiritual principles that are operating in your life. No one knows it all. That’s why we all need to be learners before the Holy Spirit.

Often ministers have encounters with people whoare struggling in their marriages. A woman once approached a minister at a prayer meeting, weeping bitterly over her marriage which was about to be broken. She had been married only for a year now, but everything was dark. The minister, being aware about soul ties and the oppression it brings to a person, asked her about her pre-marital relationship. After some hesitation, she admitted to it and said that she was in a relationship for 6 months, which she later broke off. Unbeknownst to her, her thoughts, mind and emotions were still being influenced by her previous relationship. The promises she made then, began to negatively affect her marriage. She needed to learn to pray, to trust in Jesus and surrender to God. The minister prayed for her in Jesus name and taught her to pray and she was comforted. She was able to complete bury the past and its influence over her. In a matter of months, the relationship was saved.

The past cannot be ignored. It can’t be hidden from God. The scars and the brokenness need the touch of Christ. Only through the redeeming blood of Christ, can we forgive and forget about things and people that previously held influence over our life. For the blameless, innocent, precious blood of Christ can cover every humiliation, every shame, guilt and fear. The God who cares for you has a plan for you that’s much better than your past.

 Matthew 6:21 talks about “where the treasure of a man is, there is his heart as well.” If you keep your treasure in anyone else other than Jesus, you are running a risk of your treasure being stolen. Because the thief comes to steal. (John 10:10)

For those of you, who need freedom from soul-ties, from past mistakes and heartbreaks, SPEAK THIS PRAYER ALOUD AND WITH YOUR HEART.

Father in the name of Jesus, I take control and break every ungodly tie that is holding me captive. I forgive every person that hurt me and seared my soul. Let your grace enable me to completely forget. All the authority that my past had on me, I take it back. My past shall not rule me but Jesus. I release the freedom of Christ in every area of my life. I shall no more be a prisoner of despair and disappointment, but a prisoner of hope as your word says in Isaiah. Lord, I declare your blood up on my emotional health and relationships. I ask for godly relationships in my life. In Jesus name, Amen!!

This weeks blog is by Dr Abhimanu Gupta, a wise man of God with deep knowledge about spiritual principles. His mission has been to deliver people from spiritual bondages, edifying them through the gifts of the Holy Spirit.

Soul Ties: Gaining the world only to Lose Your Soul (Part one)

Soul Ties: Gaining the world only to Lose Your Soul (Part one)

As the name suggests, a soul-tie is when the soul of an individual is inter twined with another individual. Soul tie made with the wrong person(s) is a deadly situation that leads to a plethora of complications and unnecessary damage. People can be in a soul tie with anyone. And what makes it so dangerous is that the individual is unaware of its consequences. Hosea 4:6 says that God’s people are being destroyed because of lack of knowledge. Ignorance is a very big risk in modern day Christianity. Let’s dive a little deeper into the subject.

Have you ever wondered why Jesus had to shed his blood on that cross? Why couldn’t He have chosen a simpler form of death that would have been less excruciating?

Deuteronomy 12:23 and Leviticus 17:11 makes it clear that God forbade his people to eat blood in the meat because blood carries life and on the altar, the blood is for remission of sin, returning man into covenant with God.

In other words, Jesus made a blood covenant with us by shedding the last drop. He had to give His life which was in the blood to redeem our lives. The blood covenant is the strongest covenant ever formed. In the olden days, two allies would make a small cut on their hands and mix their blood. It was a sign that now they are not two but one blood, that their lives are now binding and intermingled with each other. When you enter into a sexual relationship, you enter into a blood covenant with the other person. Your life is now intermingled with your partner. Such a powerful bond becomes dangerous when one enters into such relations outside the perimeter of marriage, which is ordained by God.

We are living in a very volatile space in today’s world. Our colleges and work places are often under the influence of things that do not follow godly principles. It’s very easy to follow their footsteps and go down the road which is contrary to the nature of God. But the risk is huge. It’s a common practice now a days to have multiple partners with whom soul ties are created. Suppose, a boy and girl comes together before marriage, they chase this lifestyle of fulfilling their own carnal desires. But what happens is that they begin being governed by each other in various ways. We can see jealousy, insecurity, fear and overbearing tendencies make its way into their lives.

2 Samuel 13 tells a story about Amnon and Tamar. If you go on reading that story, after having a sexual encounter with Tamar, the Bible says that Amnon hated Tamar. The same girl for whom he fell head over heels for, is now the object of his hate and disgust. A soul tie operates powerfully in each person.

Truth doesn’t change over time. Lessons about the spiritual realm might sound like old fashioned notions to young ears, but that doesn’t make it irrelevant. The word of God reveals to us the foundational principles that this world has been built on. The Holy Spirit gives us the strength and wisdom to walk in God’s path. Until we are delivered from influences on our soul, we will remain hindered from discerning the direction of the Holy Spirit. The Bible comforts us, teaches us, and enlightens us but the Word also warns us. We are in a fallen world. Nothing here is as it was meant to be. It’s been perverted from its original purpose. None of it is worth gaining at the cost of our soul. But we can be made right with God through Christ Jesus. When Jesus shed his blood on the cross, God raised the value of each of us to be worthy of eternal, abundant life.  Our soul is now worth the sacrifice of Christ on the cross. So treat your soul as the precious treasure of God, purchased by the blood of Christ. Guard your soul from outside influence.

Philipians 4:7 says “..the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”

Make no mistake about it, the only place your soul is safe is in the hands of the one who died to redeem it!!

 To be continued…

This weeks blog is by Dr Abhimanu Gupta, a wise man of God with deep knowledge about spiritual principles. His mission has been to deliver people from spiritual bondages, edifying them through the gifts of the Holy Spirit.



Studies have shown that human beings have an inherent need to be loved and nurtured. Attachment theory suggests that children are born into this world pre-programmed to seek out attachment. Babies who are deprived of touch, particularly in the first 6 months grow up to be psychologically damaged. Long term deprivation of love, attention and care can consequently lead to delinquency, reduced intelligence, increased aggression, depression or affectionless psychopathy. Without love, something inside us breaks.

The very nature of God is love. The bible does not shy away from reminding us of God’s everlasting, steadfast, quieting, poignant love.

Jeremiah 31:3 says “I have loved you, my people, with an everlasting love. With unfailing love, I have drawn you to myself.” 1 John 3:1 “See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God!” Romans 5:8 “but God shows His love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us”

Popular content and culture subliminally trains people to chase love, to feel devastated by rejection, to feel happy and fulfilled only by gaining attention. Generations live in pursuit of likes and emoticons. But the power of loving first, of enduring for another, of building true bonds is forgotten. But the bible strongly calls us not just to receive love but also, to love one another.

Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God.  Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. 1 John 4:7-8 Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. 1 John 4:9-11 “Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.”1 Peter 4:8. “My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you.” John 15:12.

Interestingly, psychology also supports this. As much as we are born in inherent need for love and nurture, we also have a need to bestow love and care on others. Research shows that expressing love or benevolence for others benefits not just the recipient of affection, but also the person who conveys it. Loving others, acts of generosity & kindness, showing empathy & compassion are all equally important in experiencing happiness, as is being the object of love. Psychology basically says, if you want to be happy, first you need to be loved and second you need to love others.

The love of God is demonstrated on the cross for all to know. No matter what your experience with love has been in this world, there is a God who sees you, loves you and seeks you. He intends to bless you and prosper you. But the word of God doesn’t stop there. The bible then calls us forth as vessels that carry this divine, unblemished, sacrificial love to pour out into this world. More and more people suffer from depression, anxiety and other mental disorders. Many around us are in unimaginable, hidden pain. The need of the hour are people who are willing to pay attention, to pay the price and to offer love which is the antidote to the poison of the enemy that has infected mankind.

Then, let us love as we have been loved. Let us treat our fellow believers, our neighbours, our partners, our minsters with compassion and understanding. Let us treat ourselves as precious to God, created for the purposes of God. Let us love enough to yield to one another, to carry one another and to bear one another.

Love is the gift and the commandment. Let our hearts be full of love and not offense or selfishness. We cannot put on the likeness of Christ unless we put away the childishness. Let us do all things in love as we grow in the image of Christ. No matter what we face, no matter what circumstance or trial, no matter the current political climate, the bible assures us that we can fulfill every need in us through Christ. In all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us- Romans 8:37.

Let Convicted Christians Arise

Let Convicted Christians Arise

Goliath of Gath had been terrifying King Saul’s army for forty days.  Yes, Goliath was a giant. He was loud-mouthed and threatening, equipped with note-worthy armor, shield and sword. He looked formidable, he sounded formidable. Saul and his army believed their eyes and the enemy and cowered before him. But this kind of cowardice did not happen overnight. We see the root of this around 25 years ago, as recorded in 1 Samuel 13.

When the men of Israel saw that they were in trouble the people hid themselves in caves and in holes and in rocks and in tombs and in cisterns.-1 Samuel 13:6 

Now there was no blacksmith to be found throughout all the land of Israel, for the Philistines said, “Lest the Hebrews make themselves swords or spears.-1 Samuel 13:19

So on the day of the battle there was neither sword nor spear found in the hand of any of the people with Saul and Jonathan, but Saul and Jonathan his son had them.-1 Samuel 13:22

King Saul was anointed to be the leader of Israel. He was anointed to be used by God to give victory to Israel. Yet, under his rule, the people became scattered, defenselessly hiding in caves, stripped of weapons and convinced of defeat.

Saul was led by fear. He was afraid of the people scattering leading him to offer an unlawful sacrifice to God (1 Samuel 13:12). He saw himself as small, operated from insecurity and accumulated that which God commanded to destroy (1 Samuel 15:17). Instead of rallying the people to move in faith in God, he stood with them, silenced against the challenge. He gave excuses instead of truly repenting and he led the people into unbelief.

The nation of Israel stood facing old enemies quaking with fear. Until Young David shows up as an errand boy/shepherd boy/ musician. When David saw the enemy smearing the name of God, David adjusted his resume before King Saul and stepped up.

“Your servant has killed both the lion and the bear; and this uncircumcised Philistine will be like one of them, since he has taunted the armies of the living God.”

David had the same or worse limitations as everyone else in the country. A long history of war against powerful enemies, lack of armor, weapons, and fitting leadership. He was easily discounted by his own family and he was altogether nonthreatening to Goliath with his stick and his sling. But He had trained with God. He had felt God move through him when he killed the lion and the bear. He didn’t fight from a place of self-reliance. He didn’t trust in his physical prowess or his great skill or Saul’s armor but as he ran towards the giant. He was singularly propelled by his conviction. And before him, Goliath fell, slain by his own sword.

The enemy had planned well and stripped away the weapons from Israel, terrorized them and oppressed them. But when an anointed man of God stepped into the battle field with a clear conviction, the enemy’s weapon was turned against his own head.

Saul continued on his downward spiral being consumed by madness and envious rage against the anointed, prosperous, faithful David. When David fled from Saul weapon-less, afraid and hungry, true to form, he ran to the house of God. There he met the priest Abhimelech who gave him the holy bread and armed him with a familiar sword.

The priest said, “The sword of Goliath the Philistine, whom you struck down in the Valley of Elah, behold, it is here wrapped in a cloth behind the ephod. If you will take that, take it, for there is none but that here.” And David said, “There is none like that; give it to me.” 1 SAMUEL 21:9

Dearly beloved, the weapons of the enemy may seem advanced. The tricks and strategies may seem insufferable. The challenges we face may appear insurmountable. But we can overcome the oppressor as we are anointed and convicted by the Holy Spirit. God has a PLAN. God is in CHARGE. God only wants a PARTNER.

People around us may fail, may step back and fall off track. People may reject us or attack us. But if we rise like David, God will turn the enemy’s advantage against him. When we are overwhelmed, if we respond like David, God will remind us of the lions, the bears and the sword of giants that we slayed by the power of God and we will build the Kingdom just like David.

Centuries have passed but the city of David stands. The throne of David lasts. That’s the power of God upon an anointed man whose convictions are focused on God.

Petrified wood and Living Water

Petrified wood and Living Water

Transformation is an integral thread in the whole Bible. Abram, the childless idol worshiper, was transformed to Abraham, the father to many nations. Jacob, the deceiver, was transformed to Israel, the one who rules with God. The persecutor, Saul, was turned to Apostle Paul, the missionary. A volatile Simon became Peter, the rock. The name Peter comes from root word ‘Petros’ which means ‘rock/stone’. The term, petrified wood, also comes from the root word ‘Petros’.

Petrified wood literally means wood turned to stone. In nature, there is an amazing process by which wood becomes stone. The wood gets buried under a layer of volcanic ash or sediment in a way that it escapes the natural process of aerobic decay. Over thousands of years, ground water flows through the buried wood. The minerals that the water carries starts replacing the organic matter of the wood. Little by little silicates, iron oxides, manganese oxides are deposited into the buried wood till cells of the wood gets replaced with minerals that the water brings it. Cell by cell, year by year, drop by drop the water turns the wood to stone.

This process can be used to illustrate our own process of transformation. When we are buried with Christ under the Grace of God, we, who were meant for quick decay and rotting under the law, gets preserved for the process of transformation. As long as we lay buried and sealed under grace, the decay of sin under law will not set in. Then works the waters of the Holy Spirit, bringing to us the imperishable fruit and gifts of God. Transforming us daily, reaffirming us in our weakest parts with precious minerals, colouring us and drawing us in the image of God. The more we are open to the living water, the more we receive. The Sovereign Lord wills to transform us, yet He limits Himself from enforcing His will. He waits for us to be still under His blanket of grace and awaits our hearts to open up to allow His life to flow through us depositing in our mortal bodies, His eternal glory. How do we open ourselves up to God?

2 Corinthians 3:16, 18 says “whenever a person turns to the Lord, the cover is taken away. But we all, with unveiled face, beholding as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory, just as from the Lord, the Spirit.

We are required to position our hearts to God and behold Him in Faith. Through this submission to the guidance of the Holy Spirit, we are transformed from glory to glory. From Saul to Paul, Abram to Abraham, Simon BarJonah to Simon Peter. The stone is a symbol in the Bible for firm and strong. It also represents truth. The hasty, volatile, shaky, drowning and inconsistent Simon, the disciple of Christ, became Apostle Peter, the martyr for the Gospel, laying himself as a firm and steady stone of truth of the revelation of Jesus as ‘Christ the Son of the living God’. (Mathew 16:16)

1 Peter 2:4 says ‘As you come to Him(Christ), a living stone rejected by men but in the sight of God chosen and precious, you yourselves like living stones are being built up’.

Each of us experience the transforming power of God when we receive Christ in to our hearts. Let us continue to allow the living waters to flow through us, filling us with His life and glory as we grow to be fully mature children in the image of their Father.

He is Christ

He is the Lord of all creation.

He spoke and everything was set in motion.

His Love is no simple notion,

His Love endures in all determination.

Submit to Him all your situations,

In due time, you will receive the solutions.

No need to ponder on all the confusion,

He’ll guide you through till completion.

For you, He was filled with compassion,

On the Cross He displayed the extent of His passion.

His greatest mission was always your salvation,

This earth, the witness to His Resurrection.

The battles you see are not for your destruction,

His Name will be exalted by every tongue and every nation.

His faithfulness endures from generation to generation,

His grace, mercy and purpose, their unshakable foundation.

This week’s blog is contributed by guest author Acsah Konuparamban. She is a mighty worship leader, musician and teacher of the word.